
You feel it, don't you? The quiet tug in your soul. The nagging feeling that you are meant for more — more purpose, more connection, more joy, more financial flow, more vitality.
You've tried the books. The workshops. The weekend retreats. You have a collection of partially completed journals and a dozen meditation apps.
Yet, despite your best efforts, you often feel like you are wandering. Some days you're on top of the world. Others, you're completely lost. You're following fragmented paths, trying to piece together a map you don't fully understand.

Dr. Tassel comes to this work through her own lived transformation. For years she pursued achievement as a veil — a successful marriage, a doctorate in psychotherapy, the outward picture of "having it all" — while quietly disconnected from her own truth.
A breast cancer diagnosis, a brutal divorce, and a dark night of the soul stripped the illusions away. With nowhere left to go but inward, she spent years in deep inner work — releasing childhood trauma, separating from inherited programming, and slowly rebuilding a life from the inside out.
Out of that journey came the practices, audits, and initiations that now form The North Star Transformational Pathway — the exact integrated map she wishes she had when she began.
Ph.D.
Psychotherapy
25+ yrs
Inner Work
1 Mission
Your Best Life
We would rather you self-select out now than feel that you are in the wrong program. Here’s the honest filter.
This is NOT for you if
You want a passive read or a quick spiritual hit. This program requires working the practices.
You are looking for one-tool quick fixes (a single meditation, a manifesting technique). This is a way of being, not a single practice.
You are not willing to look honestly at the roles, patterns, and relationships in your life.
You want someone else to do the work for you. Dr. Tassel is your guide — but your feet walk the path.
A complete, proprietary 7-stage personal & spiritual evolution system — a multi-dimensional map that integrates mind, body, heart, and soul into one coherent path back to yourself.

“This pathway isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about stripping away everything that isn’t you — so you can finally connect with your own North Star.”
Seven essential stages, moving from the core of your self-identity outward into the life you came here to live.

Restoring Your Foundation
- Set clear self love intentions, consciously deciding how you will treat yourself moving forward.
- Practice self love affirmations to rewire your internal dialogue so it consistently supports you.
-Build self presence by coming back into your body and allowing yourself to feel.
- Create intentional time alone without distraction to deepen clarity, connection, and self-trust.
- Make decisions aligned with your core values, allowing your life to reflect what truly matters to you.
- Privilege your dreams by honoring your desires and allowing them to guide your path.
- Stay focused on your vision by keeping your attention on what you are building, even when doubt or distraction arises.
- Practice pivoting as guided, trusting your inner voice and adjusting your path when needed.
- Choose to act from faith instead of fear, making decisions rooted in trust rather than protection.
- Participate only in loving interactions, engaging in relationships and environments rooted in respect, care, and alignment.
Expected Transformation
A grounded, compassionate relationship with yourself — the inner soil every other stage grows from – where you trust your voice, honor your needs, and no longer abandon yourself for approval, performance, or attachment.
Coming Back to Your Authentic Self
- Step into self-leadership by taking responsibility for your choices, energy, and direction in life.
- Strengthen connection to your Higher Self, using it as your internal compass for decisions and guidance.
- Embrace aloneness as a space for clarity and self-connection.
- Build safety within your body, learning to support your nervous system and feel grounded in yourself.
- Cultivate magnetism by aligning your energy, authenticity, and self-worth — allowing life to respond to who you are being.
- Practice trusting life, releasing the need to control and allowing your life to unfold.
- Deepen your self-love, consistently choosing to treat yourself with care, respect, and compassion.
- Engage in feelings and shadow work, allowing yourself to process emotions and integrate hidden or suppressed parts of yourself.
- Set and uphold standards and boundaries that reflect your self-worth and protect your energy.
- Develop courage by taking aligned action even when it feels uncomfortable or uncertain.
- Connect with community in a way that supports your growth while maintaining your individuality.
- Align with your inner truth and peaceful communication, expressing yourself clearly, honestly, and with grounded presence.
Expected Transformation
A profound identity shift where you are no longer operating from conditioning, survival roles, or inherited patterns — but from a grounded, embodied sense of self that feels true, powerful, and free.


Power. Reclaimed.
- Question the unconscious patterns you’ve been taught are “normal” (stress, perfectionism, overworking, comparison), and begin thinking for yourself instead of operating from societal conditioning.
- Recognize that others’ behaviors come from their own internal state, and practice not taking things personally—meeting conflict with awareness.
- Notice where you are abandoning yourself to please, fit in, or maintain connection, and begin choosing alignment with your authentic self.
- Build a grounded, respectful relationship with yourself, practicing self-kindness, boundaries, and self-honoring as the foundation of all relationships.
- Honor how far you have come,, including through “mistakes” and difficult experiences,.
- Reclaim your power by prioritizing your own values and needs.
- Shift from external validation to internal guidance, learning to trust your intuition, body signals, and inner knowing..
- Follow what genuinely lights you up, allowing passion, truth, and authenticity to guide your path.
- Focus on the next best step instead of perfection, building consistency, resilience, and forward movement.
- Trust the process of growth, understanding that growth, resilience, and meaningful change often emerge over time.
Expected Transformation
A complete reclamation of your power.
Rewiring Your Financial Capacity: From Survival State to Money Stewardship
- Identify your money patterns as nervous system responses (fear, avoidance, over-control) rather than personal failure.
- Track when you move into survival around money (tightness, urgency, scarcity thinking) and consciously pause instead of reacting.
- Connect your current financial patterns to early experiences + childhood conditioning, bringing compassion and awareness instead of judgment.
- Explore and release ancestral and patriarchal scarcity patterns, expanding your understanding of where your money story began.
- Reclaim your financial sovereignty by noticing where you’ve been conditioned into compliance, contraction, or self-doubt.
- Practice daily somatic safety + presence (regulating your body before making financial decisions).
- Strengthen self-respect and boundaries with money, time, and energy (ending self-abandonment in practical ways).
- Begin to feel abundance internally (not as a concept, but as a lived emotional state).
- Align your internal state with external structures (business, receiving, income streams) that support sustainable wealth.
- Integrate the work into your life through consistent embodiment practices and aligned action.
Expected Transformation
A regulated, grounded nervous system in which you no longer experience money as pressure, fear, or survival. You experience money as flow, alignment, and self-led creation. Wealth becomes something you live from the inside out — not something you chase.


- Set a clear intention for your body and health (moving beyond fear or fixing into creation and possibility).
- Identify and transform the beliefs and stories you hold about your body (aging, illness, limitation, control).
- Practice “going all in” on a new identity— choosing the version of you aligned with optimal health.
- Establish a daily Body Connection ritual (breath, presence, and listening to your body’s intelligence).
- Engage in guided practices to communicate directly with your body (receiving messages, guidance, and next steps).
- Use visualization and meditation to experience yourself in your best-feeling body now.
- Practice honoring and loving your body consciously (gratitude, acknowledgment, appreciation); Replace self-criticism with self-devotion language (I love you, I honor you, I support you).
- Engage in 3 cleansing processes over the 12 weeks.
Expected Transformation
A deeply connected, trusting relationship with your body where you no longer feel at odds with it—but guided by it. You move from fear, control, and disconnection into love, communication, and alignment. Your body becomes a partner in your optimal health — not something to manage, fix, or fight. Health becomes something you co-create from within.
Moving from Transactional Relationships to Sacred Union
- Shift into your highest consciousness (Godself) by approaching your relationship with humility, curiosity, and self-responsibility.
- Practice feeling your emotions fully instead of projecting or suppressing them.
- Separate facts from interpretations, reducing reactivity and increasing clarity.
- Lead from your heart instead of your wounds, especially in moments of tension.
- Develop heart-based communication skills:
- Actively listen without interrupting
- Validate and empathize with your partner’s experience
- Set clear intentions before difficult conversations
- Learn to hold space for yourself and your partner without needing to fix or control.
- Create relational safety and trust by:
- Offering grace (to yourself and your partner)
- Maintaining connection even in conflict (“keep the bridge intact”)
- Repairing and debriefing after disconnection
- Distinguish between preferences, biases, and true needs, creating clarity in what you’re actually asking for.
- Strengthen your inner partnership so your relationship is not built on dependency.
- See your partner as a sacred mirror, recognizing that what is triggered is often something ready to be seen, healed, or integrated.
- Apply the Higher Communication Process: Namaste Method to navigate challenges with awareness and intention.
- Practice relational presence and embodiment, increasing comfort within yourself and in connection.
- Expand into sovereignty in partnership — being fully yourself while deeply connected.
- Prepare for and step into conscious union, where both individuals are walking each other home to their Highest Selves.
Expected Transformation
A deeply conscious, secure, and expansive relationship where conflict becomes growth, communication becomes connection, and partnership becomes a path of awakening. You move from reactivity, projection, and disconnection into clarity, compassion, and true intimacy. You no longer lose yourself in relationship — and you no longer guard yourself from it. You stand in your sovereignty – while meeting another in love.


- Ground into your sovereignty and divinity, recognizing yourself as a powerful, self-led divine being in a human vessel.
- Practice decentering the external world, shifting focus from approval, validation, and outside influence to your relationship with your Higher Self and your highest path.
- Take the next best step consistently, moving forward without waiting for certainty or perfection.
- Strengthen trust in your intuition, gifts, and inner guidance, allowing them to lead your decisions.
- Engage in undomestication practices, releasing conditioning, roles, and patterns that have kept you small or compliant.
- Process and alchemize emotions, especially anger, using them as information and empowerment.
- Practice visioning and manifestation, clearly seeing and energetically aligning with what you are creating.
- Claim your vision fully -owning what you desire without minimizing, doubting, or delaying it.
- Begin living from the end, embodying the version of you who already has what you desire.
Expected Transformation
A fully sovereign, self-trusting way of being where you no longer look outside yourself for permission, direction, or validation. You move from limitation, hesitation, and external dependence into clarity, creation, and embodied power.
You trust your intuition.
You trust your vision.
You trust your path.
You stop waiting for life to change – and begin creating it from who you are.
Your Investment
Weekly Live Meetings Thursdays at 5 pm central
Meetings will be recorded if you can not make it live
$2,222 Early Bird
For a Limited Time
one-time investment
or only $106.67/month through Klarna
The map is here.
Your highest path waits.







